tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9939966.post116738965387550899..comments2024-03-28T14:16:51.745+05:30Comments on Known Turf: Blame games I likeAnnie Zaidihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08687223598027157611noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9939966.post-1168610309808891262007-01-12T19:28:00.000+05:302007-01-12T19:28:00.000+05:30gaddeswarup: have not yet read the bookrushes: :) ...gaddeswarup: have not yet read the book<BR/>rushes: :) don't know if it is. ask twisty on the blaming blog.<BR/>effe: thanks. went through it and though i can't understand it, it looks good.Annie Zaidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08687223598027157611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9939966.post-1168442825488945082007-01-10T20:57:00.000+05:302007-01-10T20:57:00.000+05:30Dear Annie,Buràn is online at lasthttp://www.buran...Dear Annie,<BR/>Buràn is online at last<BR/>http://www.buran.it<BR/>Thank you very much for your words here<BR/>http://www.buran.it/Materiale/5.html<BR/>We hope to host your and other indian stories. Best<BR/>FlavianoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9939966.post-1168160655899033802007-01-07T14:34:00.000+05:302007-01-07T14:34:00.000+05:30I too! Its unbelievable the extent the roots of "p...I too! Its unbelievable the extent the roots of "patriarchy" has spread and holds on strong .. inspite of colours and races .. its so deeprooted, that one often wonders whether is this the way of life (genetic?)!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9939966.post-1167951880810361932007-01-05T04:34:00.000+05:302007-01-05T04:34:00.000+05:30"i have observed that after 10-15 years of marriag..."i have observed that after 10-15 years of marriage, many women lose all sense of self". True, I have seen many cases of this too. I have been meaning to read Sarah Blaffer Hrdy's " Mother Nature" but have not read it yet. She is an eminent scientist and I have seen good reviews of the book. Do you have any opinions on the book?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9939966.post-1167914382630069002007-01-04T18:09:00.000+05:302007-01-04T18:09:00.000+05:30opinionated: man has always spoken up. it is women...opinionated: man has always spoken up. it is women who are beginning to talk now. but yes, the blame game is amusing.<BR/>gaddeawarup: observations too can be fairly interesting subjects of gender discourse. i have observed that after 10-15 years of marriage, many women lose all sense of self, if they had any to begin with. some try to make up for it by living through their spouses and kids - a Annie Zaidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08687223598027157611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9939966.post-1167759714575958592007-01-02T23:11:00.000+05:302007-01-02T23:11:00.000+05:30I'd assume patriarchy to mean one (okay, three): m...I'd assume patriarchy to mean one (okay, three): male-dominated, male-centered, and male-identified.<BR/><BR/>Is there another definition?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9939966.post-1167728025773846582007-01-02T14:23:00.000+05:302007-01-02T14:23:00.000+05:30Are u talking about patriarchy in its commonly hel...Are u talking about patriarchy in its commonly held meaning or are you looking at another maybe a broader definition?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9939966.post-1167612035211109692007-01-01T06:10:00.000+05:302007-01-01T06:10:00.000+05:30Thanks for the introduction; I find the blog very ...Thanks for the introduction; I find the blog very interesting.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9939966.post-1167550797975864472006-12-31T13:09:00.000+05:302006-12-31T13:09:00.000+05:30Annie,I do not know whether thisi s typical or whe...Annie,<BR/>I do not know whether thisi s typical or whether it helps your investgationsin any way. In a few marriages that I observedover long periods ( starting from Andhra Pradesh to UK, USa and now Australia), women become dominant in marriages after 10-15 years of marriage. I think that in the beginning men take the decisions and women observe over period that men are not that smart and Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9939966.post-1167390467786123192006-12-29T16:37:00.000+05:302006-12-29T16:37:00.000+05:30Ironical how while you were putting up this view, ...Ironical how while you were putting up this view, I was putting up the totaly opposite view on my blog. This blame game should get interesting, with modern man finally deciding to speak up.1conoclasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10114255456767684236noreply@blogger.com